Friday, January 30, 2009

A big mistake.

I follow several blogs and occasionally post comments there. There's nothing wrong with that, except of course...I should have never ever EVER posted a comment on someone else's blog using my blogger identity, because that person, or anyone reading that person's blog, can click the link to my blog and read all my dark, humiliating secrets. My blog is open for anyone to read because it's the only way for my friends to follow it, but no one knows the URL except two friends I really trust.

It only dawned on me that I made a huge mistake by using my blogger identity to post comments on other people's blogs when I commented on one of the blogs I follow. The blogger then replied my comment in my blog, in one of the posts I particularly want no one but my 2 friends to read. I cannot blame the blogger because my blog is open for public, and I also don't think she cared about what I wrote since her only intention was to reply my comment. Still, I feel very uncomfortable because the post contains a controversial topic and my personal view of it, and even if the blogger only read it briefly and forgot it as soon as she left, it's still very embarrassing because I don't know what she thought when she saw it.

So dear poster, in case you come here again, I just want to say that I am not blaming you for coming to my blog. I just want you to know, in case you've read my post and felt disgusted about it, that I am not homophobic. I am a Christian and I have certain opinions on homosexuality that may not be in accordance with most people's opinions, but I will never, ever, EVER shun or discriminate homosexual people. I disagree with their lifestyle, but it does not influence the way i love them and treat them as friends.

If you have never read my post, well...at least now you know.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I did that once and some people found my blog and from that worked out who I was, beyond my blog identity. I have to remember to only respond without using my blogger id from now on. As someone once told me, blogs are not as secret as we think, even if we only give out the address to a few friends. Somehow, people find it and figure out who you are.

I like this entry though. Very clearly explains your position in a way that shows you are probably more tolerant than a lot of people who are completely okay with people being gay.

I know I've read a lot of hostile things from people against the Christian point of view, which proves those who think they're being super tolerant, really aren't.

I've seen people who have no issues with gay people and think that makes them all tolerant and crap, and then they'll turn around and get up in the face of a Christian person and put down their point of view and make them feel like less of a human being. Kind of hypocritical if you ask me.